This is exactly how I feel!

"Never explain yourself to anyone.
Because the person who likes you doesn't need it
And the person who dislikes you won't believe it"

Ouch ouch ouch!!!
These sentences are so suitable for what I am really feeling now....

Sometimes, we are just so longing for someone to listen to us and understand us and somehow agree with what we think and do.
Hence, we keep on explaining and explaining.... Trying our best to make people understand us.

When we come to think about it though...
What's the point?
Exactly! What's the point?

Why do we have to waste so much time and effort and energy just to explain ourselves to the others? What's the point?

When you realize that that particular person will never listen and understand you, you should by then know that you mean nothing to the person. Nothing. He or she might feel so annoyed by you who keep explaining things to them which they do not care at all! The more you explain, the more they get annoyed, the more they do not get you, the more they dislike you.

This is sad.... But TRUE!

This is exactly what I have been through and what I have learned from my experience.

Yea... I am talking this based on what I have been experiencing all these while....

Sharing with friends who call themselves as my "best friends". Explained to them. Gave examples to them. Still, what I get back is only increased hatred.

But, for those who really like me, and who really care and support me.....
I really do not have to say much....
They can understand me straight away by one glace, one facial expression, one movement....

Ar...
For now, I just wana treasure those whom I have who are always being supportive and encouraging... loving and caring... *you know who you are. Just wana let you know how much I love you all.*

Another verses wana to share....

"Don't let someone to become a priority in your life
when you are just an option in their lives
Relationships work best when they are balanced"

Argh.... So so so so so so TRUE!!!

Do not let a person comes into your heart too easily when you are unsure if what they said are true. Do not treat a person too good and proclaim them as your best friends because they might not think the same way.

You may say that I am too coward in believing good things in this world..........

Well,
I just want to protect myself from any other harm that will hurt me anymore.....
You know,
I could not afford it anymore..........