Friday, May 16, 2008

Is there a true friendship between man & woman?

Recently, i have been teased by my friends for being so called "close" with a guy.... One of my friends said that it is always not a good idea to be too close with a guy.... The guy might misunderstand your feeling towards him or other people might spread rumors around.... which can be very "disturbing" (aiyo... cannot think of the word now) at times....

I used to agree what she said but not very sure for now....

sometimes...
i think that a guy can be a better friend for me....

guys usually are not that "small gas", they are not as sensitive as a girl, so you basically can tell them anything you want to... you don't have to think much for what you want to say or do.... you can be yourself.... yup! the true self.... just do anything that you like.....

because guys will usually forgot what you said or did in a split second, very quickly....

you can tease them whenever you wana to and they will just laugh and have fun together with you.... unlike some of the girls, they might feel offended and who know, because of the teasing and jokes, they might even start to hate you (and the worst part is.... you don't even realize that they are disliking you and don't know f*cking hell why)....

i might sound a bit unfair for the girls but this is exactly how i feel....... girls can be very dangerous...... we have to be careful when handling the relationship with girls coz you don't want to offend them....

for me, i think it is easier and more comfortable to be with guys.... they are easy going... i feel safer to share secrets with guys because they are not "big mouth animals".... they are just not the kind that will spread rumors... anyway, they are not made to be so....

until now, i still don't know what i am writing or what the purpose of me writing this bullshit...
just want to crap.... anything...

i do think that some girls might have the same perspective as me...

i am curious what the guys think.....
hmm...................

4 comments:

Yoke Peng 玉萍 said...

hey. I agree with u. =)
Boys n girls can be good friends.
So, everyone out there don't simply spread rumors k. =)

Liz said...

Hahahahah

Are the both of you aiming at me ah?

To be truthful, I tease only because I love your reactions la. I don't really mean it.

And yes, I do believe that boys and girls can be good friends. Heck, I am the one who is so good friends with a guy that people remind me he has a girlfriend.

And yes,it's purely platonic. I don't like him, not romantically anyway. He is a great friend though.

So don't be too sensitive la~ Who cares what they say? Lol.

Yoke Peng 玉萍 said...

LOL.

Yea. yea. I noe. i noe.
it's just for fun. =P

Yuinyi said...

LOL aren't we all experiencing the same thing? XD